Ophelia Anne Delise, age 2, was born on August 10, 2023, in Mansfield, Ohio, to Justin M. and Blythe E. (Caldwell) Delise. She passed away on Thursday, December 11, 2025, at OhioHealth Shelby Hospital. Ophelia carried a presence far larger than her physical size—one marked by determination, awareness, and a fierce, unmistakable spirit.
Ophelia was incredibly present and perceptive, always aware of what was happening around her. She knew exactly what she wanted and had no hesitation in making it known. Whether choosing a toy or selecting a book, she would carefully point, turn pages, and guide others until her wishes were understood. Her intelligence and intentionality were evident in everything she did.
Though she did not walk or speak, Ophelia communicated beautifully in her own ways. She was not passive in life. She actively participated in her own care, proudly helping in all aspects, consistently showcasing her independence. While her physical stature was small, her personality was anything but. Ophelia was strong, fierce, and self-assured.
She loved Ms. Rachel and Super Kitties and delighted in all things cats and kittens. Her favorite companion was her beloved stuffed cat, Kiki, her constant comfort and cherished friend. Like many children, she formed a deep attachment to one special stuffed animal, finding joy and reassurance in Kiki’s presence. And Kiki was in fact present in everything—family portraits, meals, trips, and all adventures.
Ophelia was affectionate and deeply connected to those she loved. She would pull people close, hugging them tightly to her chest. One of her greatest joys was her brother, Rowen. Together, they shared a bond uniquely their own, communicating through silhouettes and laughter, creating a language and cadence that no one else could replicate.
She loved to read, especially books about mermaids, and enjoyed going out to eat. Salty snacks, particularly tortilla chips, were among her favorite treats and always brought her happiness.
Ophelia’s life was defined not by what she faced, but by who she was. While she lived with medical challenges, they only served to highlight her resilience, strength, and determination. She showed everyone who knew her that her spirit far exceeded physical limitations.
In addition to her parents, Justin and Blythe, brother, Rowen, and favorite stuffie, “Kiki”, she is survived by her paternal grandparents: Gary and Nicole Delise and Ann Vallandingham; maternal grandparents: Robert and Traci Caldwell and Clara Bayer; paternal great grandmother: Patricia Vallandingham; her aunt: Sarah Delise; her uncles: Evan and Ethan Caldwell; numerous great aunts and uncles; and many special caregivers who have touched her life both at home and in the hospital. Ophelia was preceded in death by her maternal grandfather: Mark Bayer; and maternal great grandmother: Lorraine Lindl.
Family and friends are welcome on Tuesday, December 16, 2025 from 4-6 pm at the Penwell Funeral Home, 168 West Main Street, Shelby, where funeral services will immediately follow at 6 pm.
For those wishing, memorial contributions may be made to Humane Society Richland County (https://adoptourstrays.com/) or S.T.O.P. Cat Shelter and Spay/Neuter Clinic.
Condolences may be left on the funeral home’s website (PenwellFuneralHome.com) or Facebook page.
I am so sorry for your loss. Ophelia seemed like the happiest baby despite all the obstacles she faced. Although her time was too short on this earth, I know every moment was spent showered with love & support. All the love & hugs to you guys.
Rest easy, sweet girl (& fellow cat lady). Ophelia’s strength & determination were nothing short of inspirational.
You are a family of rare courage, love and strength. I have heard such amazing stories of Ophelia’s life, and the determination of her family to do the very best for her. What a sweet presence she has been, may your memories be a precious blessing. I’m so terribly sorry for your loss. I wish God’s peace on all of you, and pray for your comfort.
Ophelia Anne,
While we only knew you through your paternal grandmother Ann, we knew you well through our prayers made with Ann from our Bible study in Frederick, Maryland.
We know you and Kiki are sorely missed, but are assured you are now at peace and happy in the arms of our saviour, Jesus. We don’t understand your young death, but we trust in our Lord that you and He do. ❤️
To my little mermaid, you showed all of us a whole new world. I love you always. Aunt Sarah
On behalf of the entire Davy family we send our deepest condolences and prayers to the Delise and extended families. Justin brought so much comfort to our family when we lost Tom, his friend. We pray that your family finds the peace that passes all understanding.
So very sorry for your loss. Also, I’m very happy you got two years of life with a little angel like that.
May God bless you all until you meet again
My heart goes out to the whole family. What an unfathomable loss.
Dear Ophelia,
We never met on this physical plane, but spiritually I have been by your side. I am sorry you had to endure such hardships in this life. But your spirit is bright, you kept us all hopeful of miracles. You are pure magic & brought that to us. So grateful to you for being here with us. Gratitude to your family members and sorrow for their loss. Be in peace little one.
Love
Cousin Emily
My deepest Sympathy
We are so very sorry for the loss of your sweet Ophelia . May you find comfort and strength in all your precious memories.
With love,
Mike and Susan Baldwin
Blythe and Justin,
I just learned of Ophelia’s passing today. I am very sorry to hear of the loss of your precious girl. I was blessed to get to know Ophelia and you both and I will never forget her. Ophelia made an amazing impact with her life! My condolences to and prayers for you all,
Jo Ann
Justin and family, so sorry to hear of Ophelia’s passing. God must have needed another courageous,beautiful angel and that she was!